Have you ever felt a deep desire to share something meaningful with someone, but didn’t know where to start? I remember the first time I tried to share my faith with a friend. I was nervous, unsure of what to say, and worried about how they might react. My hands were sweaty, and my heart raced as I stumbled over my words. But over time, I’ve learned that sharing Jesus isn’t about having all the answers—it’s about being present and walking alongside someone as they explore their own questions about life and God. It’s about building a bridge of trust, not just delivering a message.
Sharing Jesus is more than reciting Bible verses or giving a polished speech. To me, it’s about developing genuine, one-on-one relationships. It’s sitting with someone as they wrestle with life’s big questions, offering support and understanding without judgment. This approach shifts the focus from “evangelism as a task” to “evangelism as a relationship.” It’s not about checking a box—it’s about journeying together.
I’ll never forget a time in the military when I tried to share my faith with another solider. They asked me questions I didn’t know how to answer, and I felt completely out of my depth. I remember sitting in my car after last formation, replaying the conversation in my head, feeling defeated and wondering if I’d done more harm than good. He soon texted me to meet up again and then it hit me: it’s okay not to have all the answers. Sometimes, just listening and being present is more powerful than having the perfect response. Research backs this up too—studies show that people are more open to spiritual conversations when they feel heard and valued, not when they’re bombarded with facts or arguments.
That moment taught me the power of vulnerability. When we admit we don’t have it all figured out, we create space for real connection. It’s in those honest, unguarded moments that trust grows—and trust is the foundation of any meaningful relationship. Sharing Jesus isn’t about being perfect; it’s about being real.
As I think about my own experiences, I’m reminded of something St. Francis of Assisi once said: “Preach the Gospel at all times. When necessary, use words.” It’s a beautiful reminder that our actions—the way we live, the way we love—can speak just as loudly as our words. Sometimes, the most profound way to share Jesus is through a simple act of kindness, a listening ear, or a shoulder to lean on. Those small gestures can open doors to deeper conversations about faith.
If you’re like me, you might feel overwhelmed by the idea of sharing your faith at times. But here’s what I’ve learned along the way:
Start with relationships: Focus on building genuine connections with the people around you. Ask questions, listen, and show that you care.
Be honest: It’s okay to say, “I don’t know,” or “I’m still figuring this out too.” Vulnerability can be a bridge, not a barrier.
Trust the process: Sharing faith is a journey, not a one-time event. Be patient with yourself and others.
These lessons have changed the way I think about sharing Jesus. It’s no longer a daunting task riddled with guilt but an invitation to walk alongside others in their spiritual journey.
So, here’s a question for you: What’s one step you could take today to build a deeper relationship with someone in your life? How might that open the door to sharing your faith?
As I close, here’s a simple prayer that’s been on my heart:
May we have the courage to be present, the humility to listen, and the grace to love others as we journey together. Amen.
